Reluctant to Talk
Epiphany 4 Jeremiah 1:4-10
Reluctant to talk. Reluctant to talk about Jesus Christ. Reluctant
to talk about Jesus Christ to my unchurched friends. Lutherans are
reluctant. You are reluctant. I am reluctant. We are by nature and
by culture and by denominational heritage reluctant to talk with our
unchurched friends about Jesus Christ.
In a sociological
study of Lutherans, it concluded that 90% of all Lutherans rarely or
never spoke to anybody about their faith in Jesus Christ. In this
study of active Lutheran Christians, active in that they attended
church about three out of four times a month, it was found that 40%
of these Lutherans never talked to anyone about Christ; 35%
of them rarely speak about Christ; 13% of them spoke about
Christ to their kids about once a month; and 12% spoke
among their family about Christ once a week. Only 12% of
active Lutheran church members spoke to their family about Christ on
a weekly basis. What a
devastating commentary on the Lutheran church. This sociological
study concluded that Lutherans, with their Scandinavian heritage,
are reluctant to talk about Christ even with their children, not to
mention being reluctant to speak with their unchurched friends about
It is with this
mood of reluctance that we approach the theme of today’s Old
Testament lesson. Jeremiah was a teenager.
He was a reluctant mouthpiece of God who didn’t want to
talk with other people about God. In another words, he was a good
Lutheran. He was reluctant to speak with others.
The Bible says that
Jeremiah was a prophet to the nations, and several words in that
statement cause confusion. It seems to me that there are three
fundamental confusions before us. Let me explain.
examining the word, prophet, most people who are seated in the pews
conclude that you are not prophets.
Most of you, when you hear the word, prophet, think of paid
preachers. I, standing in front of you today, am the paid prophet of
the Lord for you. I am trained to talk about God and the Bible. A
preacher goes to the seminary in order to study to be a prophet. Or
you often think a prophet is a religious “big shot” like Billy
Graham or some other television personality. In other words, you,
sitting in a church pew, are not a prophet. … You say to yourself,
“ I am not a preacher, who has been through seminary and trained
to talk. I am not a famous preacher like Billy Graham. It is obvious
to everyone that I am not a prophet.” Such thoughts are erroneous
That is, we hear
from God’s word in Acts 2:21 where God says, “All of my
people are prophets.” Young and old men, young and old women,
young and old, male and female, all Christians are my
prophets.” On Pentecost morning, we re-enact the Pentecost story.
A wide variety of people from our parish read a Bible passage in
their own language such as German, Italian or Spanish. The message
of Pentecost is clear: all Christian people are prophets, men and
women, boys and girls, young and old. We are all God’s talkers.
Not just the paid preachers. Not just the famous God talkers like
Billy Graham. A second confusion
is this: we don’t
realize the word, prophet, refers to a specific part of the human
body. In the children’s sermon today, I asked the kids. Does the
word, prophet, refer to fingers? No. Does the word, prophet, refer
to wrists? No. To hands? No.
Does it refer to elbows? No. Does it refer to shoulders? No. To
heads? No. Does the word, prophet, refer specifically to the mouth?
Yes. Yes. Yes. The word, prophet, refers to a specific piece of the
body and that specific piece of the body is the mouth. A prophet is
God’s mouthpiece. A prophet is God’s talker. We don’t
visualize hands that are willing to serve others in love or
visualize feet that are willing to walk the extra mile for someone
else. Hands and feet are crucially important, but the word, prophet,
refers specifically to God’s mouthpiece. Most of us want our hands
and feet to do the talking; most of us want our example to do the
talking. We don’t want our mouths or tongues to say anything. We
want to remain silent and say nothing except through our hands and
feet. But, in addition to our hands and feet, we also need a mouth
that does the talking, that tells of our faith in God. All three
parts of the body are needed. … The word, prophet? It refers
specifically to the mouth. We, the prophets, are mouthpieces for
A third confusion
happens when it was said that Jeremiah was a prophet to the nations.
When we hear the word, nations, that brings to mind foreign nations
like China or Chad or Chili. “A prophet to the nations” means to
go to other nations and tell them about Christ. It means to become a
foreign missionary. … But, the word for nations is “ethnos”
and means ethnic groups. It refers to any group that does not know
Jesus Christ. It also means, Gentiles. A Gentile is anyone who does
not know Jesus Christ. In other words, you don’t have to go to
China, Chad or Chile to be a prophet. A prophet is a talker, a
mouthpiece for God, and a prophet can stay right here at home and
speak to the ethnic groups and gentiles all around you. It is
confusing if you think a prophet has to go to other nations. A
prophet, or mouthpiece, directs his or her language to people right
at home. If a prophet goes to other nations of the world, I can
escape being a prophet, and as a Lutheran, I want to escape being a
prophet if at all possible.
confusions get in our way immediately. Someone else is a prophet;
not me. The prophet must be a paid preacher or the religious big
shot. I, a Lutheran, want to be a prophet by simply being nice to
someone with my hands and going the second mile for them with my
feet, but never use my mouth to say anything about God. The net
result is that I avoid being a prophet. That’s what I want to
avoid at all costs: being a verbal spokes man or woman for God.
There are many
prophets in the Old Testament who were reluctant to speak about
their faith in God. When we are reluctant to talk about God and
God’s ways, we join good company in the Old Testament
prophets. The prophets, like us, are often reluctant to talk. Let me
First, we need to
talk about Jeremiah, the prophet today’s text. Jeremiah certainly
was reluctant to talk with others about God. Jeremiah said, “I am
only a teenager. I am too young. I am too new at the Faith. What
will my friends think if I talk to them about the Faith? Others will
make fun of me, ridicule me, and reject me. I am afraid of their
rejection. ” Like Jeremiah, so many teenagers are reluctant to
talk about our faith in God because we are afraid of rejection,
afraid of the opinion of others, and afraid of ridicule. Of course,
you don’t need to be a teenager to be afraid of rejection and
ridicule, like Jeremiah was. All people of all ages seem to have
this fundamental fear of ridicule by others.
There is another
example of a reluctant prophet in the Old Testament and that was the
prophet, Isaiah. God
said to Isaiah, “Isaiah, I want you to be my prophet; I want you
to be my talker and tell of your faith in me.” Isaiah replied,
“O no, God. I can’t be your talker. I am a person of unclean
lips. You should hear some things I say. I use bad language. I am
such a bad example. I am a lousy disciple. How could I talk to
anyone else about you Lord, knowing what a bad example I am.” Yes,
lots of people then and now use this excuse, “I am such a bad
example. How can I witness for God.”
There is another
example of a reluctant leader in the Old Testament and his name was
Gideon. Gideon responded, “Not me, Lord. I quote, ‘I come from
the weakest tribe.’ I come from the weakest of backgrounds. I have
a poor education. I only went through grade school, junior high
school, or high school. How do you expect me to talk to a college
graduate about Christ? That is my excuse, Lord. I really don’t
know enough about the Bible. My background in the Bible is poor, and
you really wouldn’t expect me to talk with anyone about you.”
Yes, lots of Christians still use that old excuse, “I don’t know
enough Biblical background. If I had more knowledge, I would talk
more.” This is another good but lame excuse, used for centuries.
There was this
other leader in the Old Testament and he, too, was a reluctant
prophet. His name was Moses. Moses, too, found excuses and he said,
“I have a speech impediment. I got this problem with speaking and
I have a stutter. I am
not good at talking at all. In fact, I am downright embarrassed to
talk. I am downright shy. I have this brother by the name of Aaron.
He is good at talking and I will persuade him to talk for me.” The
excuse of shyness is centuries old. People have been using this
excuse for decades. “I am not good at talking. Get someone else to
talk about you, Lord.”
In my version of
the Bible, there were two more reluctant prophets in the Oldie Old
Testament, and their names were Ole and Sven. Ole was from Norvay
and Sven was from Sveeeden. Ole said, “Yah, you betcha. I yust
caan’t talk wid udders about Yeesus. Vat vould Lena tink?” Sven
vas da same vay. Sven thaught he vas smarder dan Ole, and he said.
Ole, Ya not catch me dead talkin
about Yeesus.” All the descendants of Ole and Sven seem to
have a cultural reluctance about talking with others about Christ.
It has been deeply engrained for centuries. So this is another good
excused, used from time immemorial. “My heritage? I just cannot
over come it. The cultural indoctrination of religious silence is
too deep in me.” I will let my hands do the talking; I will let my
feet do the talking. I won’t use my mouth to do the talking.
So several of these
Old Testament prophets had this problem of their reluctance to be
prophets. They held the familiar excuses for not talking about God
and God’s values. They said, “I am too young, I don’t like
being ridiculed or rejected. I am such a bad sinner, such an
imperfect example, with no enough knowledge of the Bible. I am a shy
person with speech impediments. Let a smoother talker do the
talking. Besides, I am from a weak cultural heritage, and we have
never done it before”.
But God wouldn’t
take “no” from these escape artists, from these mission dodgers,
from these reluctant prophets. God would not take “no” from
them, and with godly persuasion, God persuaded each one of them to
become the spokesman for God. God overcame every one of their lame
So it is with us.
We too are reluctant prophets, reluctant spokes men and women for
God. We too are filled with inhibitions and excuses and reasons why
we can’t do the job. Like God did to Jeremiah, God touches our
courage, touches our spirits, and touches our mouths. God touches us
and miraculously, God uses people like us, like you and me. God uses
people as common as we are to speak. Not only to silently talk with
hands. Not only to silent talk with feet as we go the extra mile.
But God always uses common and ordinary people to do God’s work.
All of these famous prophets and famous leaders were initially
common and ordinary people before they became famous in Biblical
history. God chooses you; touches your courage, touches your spirit,
and touches your mouth and puts words into your mouth and you, too,
become a prophet, a mouthpiece, for the Lord. This is what happened
to Jeremiah and this is what happens to you and me.
There is a popular
TV show, entitled TOUCHED BY AN ANGEL. I like the title. The title
is true: God touches our hearts to give us more courage, touches our
brains to think the right words, touches our spirits so we are in
the right spirit, touches our lips to speak the right words, and
touches the heart of some one who was brought to us so that they may
I have seen God
overcome so many excuses and reasons why people could not be
contemporary prophets who speak boldly about Jesus Christ. I have
seen this miracle occur again and again, and I would like to share
some stories with you. These stories illustrate that God still
touches our courage, our heads and hearts, our lips and tongues. God
still puts words into our souls and courage into our hearts
so that we speak more freely and boldly about God and Christ.
A key thesis is
that there are no natural prophets or spokesmen and spokeswomen for
God. This is a learned behavior. This is important for you and me to
grasp. No one naturally does witnessing or sharing the faith or
telling about God and God’s miraculous work on your lives. No one
does this naturally, but this is a learned set of behaviors. We
always learn from others; we always learn from other Christians who
are more experienced in this than we. We always learn from watching
and modeling, learning from others.
We have had this
adult class on Sunday mornings for several weeks. The class has been
entitled, “Christ and My Job.” Keith Eldridge from KOMO TV has
been the moderator. Five people
from the same occupation spoke at each panel discussion. There were
five doctors, five nurses, five computer specialists, five who
worked at the airport, five teachers, five engineers, five business
people, five firemen, five policemen. Each person told what they did
in their occupation, how their Christian values impacted their work,
and how they evangelized on their job. The questions were all
interesting, but especially how they spoke about Jesus Christ in
their work. Speaking to Keith Eldridge as he summarized the class,
since he was the only person who attended all the classes: he said
“These people have been touched by God and are finding creative
ways to talk about their faith in God in the work place. They all
are. They share what they are doing on their jobs and who they talk
about Christ on their jobs. By the end of the class period, all the
people have been learning from each other.”
In our jobs, Christ
touches our hearts to give us more initiative and boldness, touches
our brains so that we think the right words for the right moments,
and touches our lips so that we finally speak words appropriate to
the person in front of us. In the past, we Lutherans relied on our
good example and didn’t ever get around to talking about our faith
in God. But not nowadays.
Another place that
we talk about our faith in God is in our families, where mothers and
fathers are talking to their children about God and children to the
mothers and fathers, where grandmas and grandpas talk about their
faith to their grandchildren and vice versa. I can give you hundreds
of examples of parents who talk with their faith to their children.
Lou and Linda Overbo talk about their faith in God to their kids,
and it shows. So do the Ellis’; those kids talk about their faith
because their parents talk about their faith in God. The list goes
on and on. All of these parents; their lips and words had been
touched by God. If you are a Christian parent and not talking about
your Christian faith and values to your child, something is wrong.
Your model is still Ole and Sven.
I would like to
share an example of a shy person telling us about God and Christ.
His name was David Hughes, who played for the Seattle Seahawks, a
blocking back, who was coming to our men’s Bible study and
speaking publicly for the first time about Christ. He told us he was
more scared about talking to us about Christ than preparing for a
professional football game. He was not a professionally groomed
Christian speaker and that was what was good about him. He just
quietly told what had happened in his life. He told of the time when
he was eleven years old and his father, a policeman, was killed, and
they had a huge police escort at his father’s funeral. The eleven
year old was strong so he thought and fought back all tears. Time passed. Years passed.
Recently, a policeman in Seattle was shot to death, and there
was an enormous police escort at this policeman’s funeral. David
Hughes pulled his car off to the side of the road and started to cry
intensely, after fourteen years. For fourteen years, the feelings
from his father’s own funeral had been bottled up in him, but now
he was ready to talk. He talked about the importance of reading his
Bible every day, of praying every day, of worshipping God every day.
I was so glad we heard this man before he got professional
with his words, while he still had a nervous stomach, while he had
not learned to be smooth in his delivery. God touches David Hughs’
heart, spirit and tongue so they he spoke the right words to us.
Joy spoke at our
women’s group recently. She is a very handicapped woman. She said
that she had thirteen different handicaps. Joy sang her testimony
and ever sang at the Olympics. She had to use a tape to accompany
her because the tape never deviated and she need the notes exactly
the same to sing. God touched her, as God touches all angels. God
touched her courage, her brains, his tongue and she spoke eloquently
to our women.
I met Wilfred
Bockelman recently. If God can use Wilfred Bockelman as a witness,
God can certainly use you and me. Bockelman is the only pastor I
know who has a serious stutter, a serious speech impediment.
Bockelman told a story about himself.
His friends were so glad that God made him a preacher rather
than a surgeon. His friends would entrust their souls to his care,
but dreaded thinking of him as a surgeon. He may drop a scalpel and
go “spon…spon…spon…spon…spon…” calling for a sponge to
stop the bleeding. While he was stuttering, they would die of
bleeding. His friends said that they were glad that he became a
preacher and not a surgeon. You should have heard Bockelman. You
should have heard Bockelman talk about God. God had touched his
courage, touched his spirit, touched his words and God used
Bockelman to talk mightily about God. If God can use Bockelman, God
can use you and me as well.
Recently, there was
an enormous explosion on a rocket and several of our astronauts were
killed. It was a terrible experience for everyone. Whether you are a
Democrat, a Republican, Independent, or whatever party you may
belong to, it was obvious to me that God touched President Reagan as
he spoke this past week. God had touched his courage, his spirit,
his words and he gave one of the finest Christian sermons that I
have ever heard.
I look at our
church members who recently went to Haiti on a mission trip. There
was a hair-dresser, a realtor, and a school teacher. There were no
professional talkers in that group. I was told that the best sermon
was given my Terry, the fifth-grade, school teacher, as gentle and
quiet spirit as you would ever know. But God touched his courage,
touched is spirit, and touched his lips and words and he spoke
eloquently. That is the way it always works: God touching common
people and thereby they speak God’s message.
I have given you
several examples of prophets, people who spoke the word of God to
their situation. Not one of these people were a paid professional
life my self. Not one of them was a famous Billy Graham.
This is the way God always works. God chooses a common person
and touches their courage, their brains, and their words. Amen.